I’m kind of funny when it comes to some things. Take lottery tickets for example. I, like I’m sure a lot of other people, purchase lottery tickets when the jackpot gets really big. Then it’s worth my hard earned bucks. But one thing I don’t do is check the numbers right away to see if I’ve won. It’s kind of crazy I know. But until I check the numbers and am given the final dash of cold water that I’m going to have to achieve my millions just like everyone else – one buck at a time and with hard work and diligence, I’m in a suspended reality that maybe, just maybe, I could have the winning ticket. So I continue in my fantasizing of all the things I’m going to accomplish with all that cash and of course knowing all along that I’ll be able to handle it in a mature, intelligent responsible way. HA!
This behavior bleeds over to other areas of my life. I was out of the country recently (did I mention I was in the UK? No? Hmm, I could have sworn I did. Here come sit next to me, I’ll tell you ALL about it!) so I missed the last 3 episodes of the Oprah Winfrey Show. I have been a long time fan and viewer, going back to her AM Chicago days when I was in town for a friends wedding and she turned me on to the show. Over the years, mostly because I was working, my viewing was hit or miss. When I moved to Chicago though, I was back watching regularly. The ABC station here ran it twice a day, live in the morning (she used to tape the show at the station) and then again after another of my favorite shows, Nightline. Which meant I could watch at the end of my day. I was back in the fold once again and my girl crush was full on.
I’ve been watching religiously, especially since she announced her retirement, collecting lessons and thoughts and memories, storing them away for the day when her wisdom and the wisdom of those she surrounds her with would no longer be a part of my daily life. But I just can’t watch those last 3 episodes. Because then the cold water of reality will be unavoidable. Her show is over and it won’t be back. I know she’s moving on to new adventures. There is a time for everything and this time is ended. Avoiding watching them isn’t going to change anything. I just need to sit down, watch the shows and move on myself. But I’m dragging my feet every step of the way.